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Thank you for that. Women struggle to get diagnosed then they hit menopause and have to start the battle all over again thanks to a faulty belief that symptoms reduce when they actually worsen for most.

Sigh…. We’re still such a long way away from being able to rest and know our daughters will be safe and treated as humans with full agency.

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Thank you for writing this. I was diagnosed in my 40’s after multiple doctors writing me increasingly high depression meds that weren’t helping. It wasn’t until I said to my doctor,” I don’t want a different antidepressant. You keep upping the dosage because you think my life is a mess because I’m depressed….but that’s not right…I’m depressed because my life is a mess”. It sounds the same but it isn’t and I know that because if I were depressed having a productive day wouldn’t help, but the truth is that when I have a super focused day I’m over the moon happy.

It’s so easy to get pushed down the antidepressant road and they shouldn’t be discounted, but we also can’t keep discounting women’s experiences with their own body simply because it’s more convenient to only use men for medication testing (yes this is a thing and it’s a huge and dangerous problem for women).

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